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(255 replies, posted in Off Topic)

I think Lord of the Flies is one of those books you need to read in fifth grade as a formative literary experience, rather than coming to it as a well-read adult.

I'm reading Cloud Atlas right now because I loved the movie. I got hung up on the Sloosha's Crossing segment for a while, because it's like reading fucking Swedish, but once I got over the hump I've been powering through it. I'm fascinated that someone decided to write this book and that the Wachowskis decided to adapt it. It also strikes me that the Wachowskis are really good at adaptation, arguably moreso than writing original stories.

I'm also trying to read J.K. Rowling's new novel The Casual Vacancy. It's...ugh. On the one hand, I'm giving in the benefit of all the doubts, not expecting it to be Harry Potter and taking it on its own terms. On the other hand, were it not by J.K. Rowling I would have given up on it completely by now because it's just not that interesting. I'm hoping it'll get interesting, but if it hasn't done so by the halfway point I'm just going to walk away.

Speaking of HP, I've also been reading the Percy Jackson and the Olympians series, which are not as flagrant a rip-off as I expected. They're also not quite as clever or richly-developed, but they're entertaining and inoffensive, good for light reading and palate-cleansing between meatier tomes.

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(165 replies, posted in Off Topic)

As I pointed out half-joking and half-not in the AVATAR commentary, Cameron writes female characters who are strong... as long as there's a stronger man to motivate them.

Sarah Connor had Kyle Reese to teach her how to fight and then the T-800 to teach her how to love; Mary Elizabeth was a strong woman but her whole arc was basically realizing it meant nothing without her man beside her; Neytiri was strong but what she ultimately wanted from Jake was for him to be stronger so he could take care of her (and her people, but first and foremost her); Rose needed Jack, Helen Tasker needed Harry; even in STRANGE DAYS, Angela Bassett was just going to go along to get along until she realized she loved Ralph Fiennes and it drove her to revolution.

It's fair to say the upshot is that the men tend to wind up being saved by the women they have at some point empowered, but the fact remains that the men either hold the power initially and must choose to bestow it upon the women, or the women surrender a part of their power to the men in order to restore balance to their world.*

As with Joss, this is not to say that Cameron's treatment of women is not significantly better than the average, or that he's a bad sexist man and shame on him. It just goes to show how deep the roots are and how far we still have to go.

*ALIENS is the outlier -- Ripley is driven to action by her mommy-instinct, instead, which is I'm not sure is better.

628

(165 replies, posted in Off Topic)

And, a fair question raised in the previous thread: who better? It's a serious question. We can acknowledge that Joss' perspective on women is still problematic, but just because he's not the end of the path doesn't mean he's not a step along it -- and is anyone further along that can serve as a role model?

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

They talk in a number of the FX articles etc. about how they gave him some hair on the chest and under the arms, and also that he's got more of a weightlifter build, with a bit of softness around the middle, rather than the competitive bodybuilder no-body-fat look he had in the previous incarnations.

They didn't go full-Blanca on the chest hair or anything, but there's a coating of fuzz that's noticable close-up and helps him feel a little more real. One of those "you may not have noticed but your brain did" things.

630

(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

I just want to reiterate again that this conversation arose due to Black Widow's treatment in the marketing materials, not Black Widow's treatment in the film.

631

(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

drewjmore wrote:

The woman's sexuality is superior to the men's, is it not?

No. It is presented to cater to the men's sexuality. It is in service to, and thereby inferior to, men's.

drewjmore wrote:

I'm not arguing that the Scarlett Jo presenting pose is role-model material for young women, but 'sexism' is what happens when a patriarchal society represses, devalues and hides women.

Since you were insisting on adherence to the dictionary definition, show me where it says anything about hiding women. Repressing and devaluing can take several forms.

Zarban wrote:

Face it, thruout Western culture, women are generally depicted as sexy, and men are generally depicted as handsome, confident, and competent, because that's members of the opposite sex find most attractive.

No, because that's what men find appealing.

You're right, it's a culture thing. I won't say Western culture because Eastern culture is pretty damn patriarchical too, just in a different way. But we're talking about it in relation to comic books and movies because ITT we're talking about comic books and movies. The fact that fashion magazines do it too doesn't change the fact that it happens in comic books and movies and right now we're talking about comic books and movies.

BTW, I'd like the men here to notice that they're making a lot of assertions about what women find attractive and how this kind of thing is for their benefit, but the few women who have posted here so far have not agreed. This idea that men know better than women? Kind of the whole problem.

Anyway, someone else tag in. I'm tired.

632

(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

The women are presented in a way that is gratifying toward men primarily, or even exclusively. I.E. men are treated superior (they are not required to be objects of gratification primarily) and their desires are the dominant concern. I.E. sexism as defined.

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

Zarban wrote:

You don't have a problem with comic books and movie posters. You have a problem with Western culture. Why are you talking about it in the context of comic books and movie posters?

Maybe because those are aspects of Western culture, and we're talking about a comic book movie right now?

634

(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

Right. Sexism exists outside of comics, too. That doesn't make it not exist in comics, which is the topic at hand.

635

(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

Squiggly_P wrote:

I'd like to watch this movie while the podcast plays, but the movie industry would really rather not let me play the movie I bought in my computer because I'm a dirty thief.

A dirty thief who paid for the movie on bluray. Stupid me. I should have just downloaded it, I guess.

I'll just leave this here.

636

(29 replies, posted in Off Topic)

So here in America we do this thing where we set aside a day to pretend we're not slavering consumers always wanting more MORE MORE. It lasts exactly one day before we immediately turn every retail outlet into Thunderdome trying to snag up shit we don't need because it's on sale.

Anyway, on this day we're encouraged to express our gratitude for the good things in our life, and I wanted to take the opportunity to be thankful for you guys, the DIF community. I've been around the internet block a few times and been a member of a number of online communities, and this one is really something special.

It's fun, welcoming, thought-provoking, and respectful, able to have disagreements, even strong ones, without flaming -- with a small handful of exceptions over the years in which, it should be noted, the common factor was me. The fact our "unpopular opinions" thread devolved into gifs rather than flames honestly says something to me about the community we have here. I'm proud to be a part of it and glad that all of you are, too.

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

http://img687.imageshack.us/img687/879/zoidberghooray.gif

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

avatar wrote:

Men and women are different. What is sexual to one, is not necessarily sexual to the other. That's why Dorkman's example of Ironman bending over is a false comparison. No woman would find that sexy. She may find a ripped male standing upright in a dominant position just as sexualized as men do of a woman bending over. It's the end result or the concept of sexualization that's the key, not the specific pose, as different poses work depending on gender. In that way, both males and females are sexualized, but in ways that reflect different readers' instincts.

As Trey says, you guys are making creationist arguments, where no matter what I say in response you're just going to repeat the same thing you said the first time as if I hadn't spoken at all. If you go back to my previous posts, I've already addressed exactly these points: sexualized and sexy are not the same, the fact that someone may incidentally find an image sexy is not the same as it being the primary purpose of the image, some people find feet sexy but a barefoot character is not inherently sexualized, etc.

And this is why an Intermission on the topic would be a complete waste of time.

I would suggest moving the content from the "Down in Front" page and have it be the main page content. As it is the main page looks bare and I initially assumed the "Down in Front" link would lead to the actual site instead of to a wiki page.

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

Eddie wrote:

Exactly.  There are some shots of MAGNETO....holocaust survivor MAGNETO, and he has lats like Bruce Lee.  SO that's why I don't jump onto the whole "Comics are sexist!" bandwagon because its about absurd sexual images for both genders equally, in my opinion.

Again, idealization and sexualization are not the same.

All the men have muscles. Fine. All the women have big boobs. Fine. That's idealization. We can agree it's unrealistic in both directions.

The difference is that the male poses do get to just be normal poses, like standing or sitting there. Or if it's an extreme pose, it's meant to show agility or ferocity or power. Females, it seems, have to spread their legs and arch their backs and otherwise do absurd things when they're just standing there; most poses are extreme and they're meant to show nubility because their primary reason for being in a panel is to appeal to the male audience.

Men are ALSO there to appeal to the male audience, and appeal to (and reinforce) male sensibilities by being powerful and dominant. That is not sexualizing them. Sexualizing them would tend to make the generally-heterosexual-male audience uncomfortable.

Here's the cover of a Black Widow comic:

http://freethoughtblogs.com/lousycanuck/files/2012/02/blackwidowcover1.jpg



Here's the same pose with Iron Man:

http://freethoughtblogs.com/lousycanuck/files/2012/02/blackwidowcover1-redraw.png


Was your reaction "Well, of course he looks ridiculous posing that way, he's a man"? Yeah, that's called sexism.


Yes, men wear skin-tight outfits showing off perfect bodies. But they don't wear ones like this:

http://i.imgur.com/wAyUr.png

Or these.


Are both genders' portrayals sexist in their own way, reinforcements of unrealistic gender roles? Sure. Are they equally so? Fuck no.

Here's an interesting couple of posts comparing the way the two genders pose on fantasy book covers that might be helpful on the topic:

http://www.jimchines.com/2012/01/striking-a-pose/

http://www.jimchines.com/2012/04/posing-like-a-man/

Brian wrote:

And let's be honest, knee jerking about sexism in a movie written and directed by Joss Whedon is a little bit ridiculous.

As we pointed out on the episode, we were talking about the marketing.


EDIT: By the way, there's a lot of defensiveness around this topic and I want to be clear that having sexist ways of thinking doesn't make you a bad person. We're all taught to think in sexist, male-supremacist terms -- in the same way that heterosexual supremacy and white supremacy are an underlying part of the culture -- and it becomes our normal mode of thinking. It takes effort to see and break out of. I appear to be one of the most feminist members of the community and I still have a tendency to think in those terms a lot of the time if I'm not careful.

"Sources."

That was the reasoning when I said it in PULP FICTION, but I've since come to the conclusion that it was a mistake. It's got way too much baggage behind it, and unlike "fag" lacks the mitigating factor of at least one of us being a member of the group it's historically been used to oppress. Generally we don't worry about being "PC," as any listener would know, but I do worry about being unnecessarily hurtful, and I think in retrospect I crossed that line. I think there are perfectly good reasons to strike that particular word from the record, and can think of none for keeping it that don't smack of white privilege or egotism.

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

But what you said is exactly the point:

  • Women tend to be reduced, by men, almost entirely to their physical attributes.

  • Men are primarily the ones who read (and create) comics and watch (and make) comic book/action films.

  • As a result, Comics and comic book/action films tend to reduce women almost entirely to their physical attributes.

Women in most media only exist to the extent that they are interesting to men. That is the problem.

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(216 replies, posted in Episodes)

TheDu wrote:

As to the debate on sexualisation that broke out, I'd just like to throw into the ring that I don't think that Male Idealisation and Male Sexualisation are actually mutually exclusive. The comparison that was thrown up is that the men would have to be grabbing their crotches but sexualisation is not a binary thing. Just as Black Widow holding her breasts in her hands would be more overtly sexualised than holding her guns while standing in a "sexy" pose, the fact that the men aren't holding their crotches doesn't mean they're automatically not at all sexualised.

Here's the image that started the controversy.

http://www.worldofsuperheroes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/avenfull.jpg

Actually no. This is the image (and the hypothetical version where the men pose as she does):

http://sojo.net/sites/default/files/16yGO.jpg

But I do want to make one point about this other one:

TheDu wrote:

Try and tell me that the depiction of Thor with his hair blowing in the wind, chest pushed out and the light reflecting of his muscular arms isn't at all sexualised.

It's not.

Sexy and sexualized are not the same thing. Thor's pose is primarily intended to show strength, power, confidence, dominance. That these attributes could be considered "sexy" is not the same as his pose primarily functioning to subconsciously cast him as an object of sexual desire (and availability).

Black Widow is posed to appeal to men. Thor and the others are also posed to appeal to men. Her primary function is to look hot. Their primary function is to look badass; if they happen to look hot to certain people outside the targeted audience, that doesn't change the fact that it's not the primary purpose. Some people think feet are sexy. A character who is barefoot isn't necessarily being "sexualized" just because it strikes some people as sexy. Context has a lot to do with it.

And again, Black Widow's pose on the poster is one of a long string of female characters being forced to pose in absurd ways, and isn't the worst of them by far. It's easy to conclude this is blown out of proportion if you're only looking at the one, or I guess two, images in a vacuum. But what we're talking about is a clear pattern with a long and pervasive history.

Sexy vs. sexualized is the difference between Taylor Lautner fixing a motorcycle in the TWILIGHT movies -- he wears a sleeveless shirt to show off his guns but otherwise fixes a motorcycle in a perfectly sensible way -- and Megan Fox fixing a motorcycle in TRANSFORMERS -- she wears a halter top and shortie shorts AND leans, rubs, and stretches against the thing so that the only thing you're thinking of is sex.

I know the n-word shows up in PULP FICTION and DAWN OF THE DEAD 78. I support special edition bleeping.

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(316 replies, posted in Episodes)

avatar wrote:

Hextable - Harvard evolutionary psychologist Steven Pinker defines "Hextable" as: The album you find in someone else's collection which instantly tells you you could never go out with them. In other words, the deal-breaker.

So you're on a hot date, things are going well, she brings you back to her place, but then you see 'x' in her Blu-Ray collection. You immediately gather your things and take your leave. What's your deal-breaker? Anything by Eddie Murphy? Uwe Boll? Twilight?

That's fantastic. This should be a thread unto itself.

SPOILER Show
The big battle scene where everyone kills each other was not in the book. In the book the two sides meet in the field, they talk, the Volturi are successfully convinced to stand down, and they all leave. To be fair, there is a sense of tension (the last half of the last Twilight book is actually decent, almost like a real author showed up) which wouldn't come across in a Wiki synopsis -- the wrong word at the wrong time and things could turn deadly -- but it doesn't happen. The whole dream sequence/vision isn't in the book, and as such when major characters start viciously murdering each other, absolutely nobody in that audience was expecting it.

Yes, actually.

If you're going to bother watching it you should seeing with the opening weekend Twihards. There's a deviation from the book that is truly epic, both in itself and in the degree to which the fans react that made the entire experience for me.

But yes, there is a CG baby so poorly done it verges on Lovecraftian, and pretty much every line is ridiculous.

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(473 replies, posted in Episodes)

Ahh, it's just speculation then. Well, I suppose we'll see how it pans out. Thanks for the link!