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My opinion on this is the same as my opinion on rape jokes: if they aren't yours, don't use them. I won't use racial slurs because I am white-passing. I will never have those words used against me so I don't fully understand the power they have.  As the others have pointed out, there is no reason for us ('us' as in white/white-passing) to use it, so why risk hurting someone?

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Now take that word I just used.  Colored.

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But let's say you go to South Africa and someone says, "Oh that nice Coloured gentleman,"

I'm liking the attention to detail

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Eddie wrote:

My Jiu Jitsu coach was a special guest at an MMA event in England some years back, and during a break in between fights was interviewed in the ring.  He was going to tell a funny story about this Korean guy next to him who smelled awful.  He started by saying, "So I'm sitting next to this smelly Asian guy...."

He was immediately booed out of the cage.  Because in England, Asian means being from the Middle East, and a racist stereotype over there is that all people from the middle east do not bath.  He said the Yank equivalent of "So this loud colored fellow..."  Now, is he racist or a bad guy?  Of course not.  But he displayed a certain culutural ignorance for which he is ultimately responsible.  Anyone who has traveled internationally runs the risk of this.

Well to be fair. If we are talking about Eddie Bravo here then the guy literally has made an art form of putting his foot in his mouth.... literally.

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Sounds precariously like intolerance to me

I am completely intolerant of racism, sexism, and other forms of prejudice.

Intolerance of ideas =/= intolerance of people.

The distinction isn't anywhere near as clear as you're making it out to be. Prejudice towards the person can stem from prejudice of the ideas that he or she holds and, further, a person's prejudices derive mostly from their own ideas about the target. You can't really separate the two like that. So yeah, you're intolerant of racists (who last time I checked are people too). Your intolerance is morally superior, but it's still intolerance. [And this is the part where I make sure everyone understands that I'm not FOR racism etc. because apparently on the internet being against A means you have to be for B]

Besides, the point was that nowadays people tend to knee jerk even potentially racist comments or such that could be racist when looked at in a way not intended. We're moving/have moved to being an over-sensitive society, as if that would solve the underlying and deep set attitudes. Such that a white person couldn't comment that he wasn't a slave to his boss, who happens to be black, without that being labelled as racist (true story for a friend of mine, which is really tragic when you think about it). Some overreact so much to perceived slights that when a person says something truly and intentionally despicable, they're not really able to express the outrage reflective of their hurt, so accustomed are they to crying wolf.

Not to say that there aren't racists and terrible people out there who say awful things. Personally, I'm far more concerned with what people do rather than the words they say.

Anyhow, more on topic, how do people feel about George Lucas? I felt that Leia was a pretty good female character, and she's possibly one of the first actiony females in Western cinema (just pre-dating Ripley by a couple of years). She rather intelligent hides the plans in R2, talks back to Vader, insults Tarkin, and even treats her captors with exasperation and aids in her own rescue. But then Padme came long, who I think is possibly one of the worst female characters ever written - essentially a walking and talking baby-maker.

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Hey, guys, I know what's worth getting hurt and upset about!  What a douchebag artist of no real value to humanity beyond entertaining SOME people SOME of the time thinks or says or does, ever!

I once wrote "Creepy Little Freak" on the forehead of a bald kid (clearly going through radiation therapy) who asked for my autograph, though, so I'm probably not qualified to speak on this subject.  I hope he wound up laughing as hard as I did.

I've learned that as a white straight male in America my opinions on just about anything are invalid, so I just sit these out.

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redxavier wrote:

Personally, I'm far more concerned with what people do rather than the words they say.

Those things overlap. If someone uses hateful/threatening speech, I am not sure if it will spill over into their actions.

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redxavier wrote:

Anyhow, more on topic, how do people feel about George Lucas? I felt that Leia was a pretty good female character, and she's possibly one of the first actiony females in Western cinema (just pre-dating Ripley by a couple of years). She rather intelligent hides the plans in R2, talks back to Vader, insults Tarkin, and even treats her captors with exasperation and aids in her own rescue. But then Padme came long, who I think is possibly one of the worst female characters ever written - essentially a walking and talking baby-maker.

I brought up George Lucas and the portrayal of Leia earlier... I think that she is one of the stronger female characters in Science Fiction/Fantasy movies to date.  I wonder how much we might have Marcia Lucas to thank for that portrayal.  Padme is just horribly written on so many levels, I recently re-watched the prequels and was stunned again by just how horribly her character is written.


More broadly, I think it will be interesting to see where this discussion goes in 20 years, much intolerance is taught/learned, as is stated in a great, often eliminated, song from South Pacific (I won't get into that discussion here).   I think we're already seeing a country which in general is becoming more tolerant, but in many ways and as Eddie pointed out these things start at home.  People who move into/out of their home areas eventually realize things which are offensive and possibly change, however a large portion of America will continue living in the same rural area their entire life so that is where the portrayals in media can make a significant difference. 

I think another important thing is for parents to help their kids learn that some people are going to look different than them.  I'm short (4'8"), I encourage parents to let their kids, who by the 4th grade are normally taller than I am, ask me questions rather than trying to hide the fact their kid is pointing and staring, let the kid ask the question, its part of the learning process.  We also have to accept that not everyone is going to understand, or share opinions for various reasons.  I've realized recently that I don't mind being called "little" anymore, that many people don't mean anything negative by it, and I think that's something which applies to things like being called "sweetie" or "darling" when living in the south... its just the learned behavior not a negative necessarily.

I've rambled enough here, but I think a large part of the discussion we're having here is part of the learning process, and I think its great we can have a discussion like this here.

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Jen wrote:

I'm short (4'8"), I encourage parents to let their kids, who by the 4th grade are normally taller than I am, ask me questions rather than trying to hide the fact their kid is pointing and staring, let the kid ask the question, its part of the learning process.

Questions about what? You're short, that's normal.

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I've realized recently that I don't mind being called "little" anymore

Why did it bother you in the first place?

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Questions about what? You're short, that's normal.

As adults we realize its normal, but kids don't necessarily.  Adults as a rule are bigger than they are, in several cases I've had parents trying to control their squirming kid who's asking "why is she driving, why can't I drive", or "Why is she allowed to shop by herself?", and my favorite "why doesn't she have to hold her mom's hand?"

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Why did it bother you in the first place?

I think because its an extrapolation of dwarf, midget, troll, shrimp, etc. and was used as a pejorative like those.

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Anyhow, more on topic, how do people feel about George Lucas? I felt that Leia was a pretty good female character, and she's possibly one of the first actiony females in Western cinema (just pre-dating Ripley by a couple of years). She rather intelligent hides the plans in R2, talks back to Vader, insults Tarkin, and even treats her captors with exasperation and aids in her own rescue. But then Padme came long, who I think is possibly one of the worst female characters ever written - essentially a walking and talking baby-maker.

Leia was , in my opinion, an excellent example of strong femininity, on par with her male cohorts. She was never really cowled or overshadowed by Han and Luke like Padme was to Anakin and Obi-Wan. But, like the rest of prequel characters, Padme is a cardboard cutout, whereas Leia is an actual person who happens to be female. So, would you consider the prequels to be sexist or just badly written characters?

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A couple of other points that I wanted to make that have been circulating my mind for a while:
1. I realized that my hard core reaction to Avengers feminist marketing (the origin of the feminist/sexism discussion) was the fact that Black Widow was often showed in a sexualized manner, either prominently displaying butt or breasts while the men get action hero shots. Several members commented that how is Avengers (and by extension comics) any worse than other cultural displays of sexism? I realized that my frustration and concern was due to the fact of the target audience.
Avengers, and comics in general, specifically target a male audience, including young kids. So, while the sexism may no worse that what is shown in media in general, the audience targeted is younger and more impressionable, leaving sexist attitudes more dangerous to expose them too.

2. I was thinking about Verhoven's "Starship Troopers" and wanted to offer as a possible comparision the new mini series "Forward Unto Dawn" a prequel for Halo 4 but designed as more of a stand alone story too. The reason I draw upon it as a comparison work is because they are both science fiction military stories with female roles in it. Below is the link to the first episode (its 5 episodes long) and wonder how others regard its treatment of females in a military setting:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfJVgXBfSH8

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I realized that my frustration and concern was due to the fact of the target audience.
Avengers, and comics in general, specifically target a male audience, including young kids.

Altho Black Widow uses her sex appeal as one of her weapons, Joss Whedon made sure that the character was more interesting and admirable than the character we saw in Iron Man 2. Meanwhile, Maria Hill is portrayed in a straight forward way and could have been a male character instead with no changes.

Is The Avengers the pinnacle of human enlightenment about women? No. But it also isn't an especially bad example of pop culture's failure to provide positive female role models.

Where was this outrage when Megan Fox did nothing but straddle a motorcycle in Transformers 2?

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I think that the portrayal of Tasha in The Avengers is pretty good, seeing as she exploits people assuming she is weak and feminine and uses it to get information. I like the subversion. However, the same cannot be said of her guest spots in other people's comics (look at you, Daredevil writers).

Megan Fox is an excellent name to bring to the discussion. Thoughts, everyone?

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Zarban wrote:
fireproof78 wrote:

I realized that my frustration and concern was due to the fact of the target audience.
Avengers, and comics in general, specifically target a male audience, including young kids.

Altho Black Widow uses her sex appeal as one of her weapons, Joss Whedon made sure that the character was more interesting and admirable than the character we saw in Iron Man 2. Meanwhile, Maria Hill is portrayed in a straight forward way and could have been a male character instead with no changes.

Is The Avengers the pinnacle of human enlightenment about women? No. But it also isn't an especially bad example of pop culture's failure to provide positive female role models.

Where was this outrage when Megan Fox did nothing but straddle a motorcycle in Transformers 2?

To be clear, I specifically am talking about the marketing of Black Widow (movie poster, action figures, ect.). I mean, I think Tasha was portrayed very well, a full character and not a cardboard cutout waiting for a male figure to save her. She has motivation, she clearly has a lot of history with Hawkeye, but strikes me as a career woman in the spy business (I know little about the actual comic book character's history so I beg some indulgence on my general statements). Her talent at flipping people's emotions on them to her advantage was great double take moments in the movie, with one playing for a laugh very well. I like the idea that she is in charge all along with the other characters not realizing it-especially when she plays Loki.

Um, I saw some outrage with Megan Fox (read, small outcry on other boards) but I think the reason this sparks protest is because, like I said, it is geared at a younger audience and highlights the institutionalized sexism within comic books specifically.

Megan Fox, in my opinion, was just a token sex symbol, like so many other actresses before and after her that I honestly give her little regard as far as her roles in movies. So, perhaps that indicates a bias on my part that I now regard as typecast "sexy girl" and don't pay attention because, honestly, I don't care or find her sexy. She isn't appealing and the way they present her and use the camera to ogle her, makes me ill and turns me away.

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I'm sincerely curious as to what the difference in between Channing Tatum and Megan Fox and Ryan Reynolds and ScarJo.

If the question at hand is "why are women more sexualized in movies than men," it's because men 18-35 both happen to be the biggest money demographic and also like sex with women more than any other demographic.  "It sells" is the answer to most questions.

If the question at hand is "why can't women be sexy AND interesting, whole characters," the answer is because people will pay to see the movie either way and one is way easier to write. 

If the statement is "this provides bad role models to young women," you're a dick, because you saw all this as a kid and still grew up to be a feminist, but you assume everyone else is way more gullible and will flock to the path of Paris Hilton and Bella Swan. 

If the statement is "this is why women make less in the workplace," you got me, I have no idea why that happens and will accept any explanation as feasible.

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Kyle wrote:

I'm sincerely curious as to what the difference in between Channing Tatum and Megan Fox and Ryan Reynolds and ScarJo.

Channing Tatum and Ryan Reynolds do not belong to a gender group that has historically been oppressed, otherized, and objectified. Idealized men are the powerful, complex people you want to be. Idealized women are things men want to fuck. Any other questions?


Kyle wrote:

If the question at hand is "why can't women be sexy AND interesting, whole characters," the answer is because people will pay to see the movie either way and one is way easier to write.

Yeah, I'm thinking the solution might be to a) stop watching movies with shitty characters or b) call people out when they do this.  Or should we just kind of go with it?

Kyle wrote:

If the statement is "this provides bad role models to young women," you're a dick, because you saw all this as a kid and still grew up to be a feminist, but you assume everyone else is way more gullible and will flock to the path of Paris Hilton and Bella Swan.

Yeah, I did see all this as a kid. And I figured out at 17 that it might be bullshit. Just because I managed to see what I was internalizing doesn't mean everyone else will.  There are a lot of young women (and young men) who see this stuff and do swallow it. That's why we're having this discussion. Because while I might be a feminist in spite of all this, not everyone is. It's a problem.

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If the statement is "this is why women make less in the workplace," you got me, I have no idea why that happens and will accept any explanation as feasible.

Off topic but I'll bite since it's I'm writing about this for my anthropology final. It's explained in Paula England's  “Devaluation and the Pay of Comparable Male and Female Occupations”,
Francine D Blau and Lawrence Khan's, "The Gender Pay Gap", Lisa Belkin's "The Opt Out Revolution", and Jerry Jacobs and Kathleen Gerson's "The Time Divide". Check 'em out.

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Allison wrote:

Channing Tatum and Ryan Reynolds do not belong to a gender group that has historically been oppressed, otherized, and objectified. Idealized men are the powerful, complex people you want to be.

Channing and Ryan are none of these things.

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Because while I might be a feminist in spite of all this, not everyone is. It's a problem.

That's pushing it a bit too far.

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Lamer wrote:
Allison wrote:

Channing Tatum and Ryan Reynolds do not belong to a gender group that has historically been oppressed, otherized, and objectified. Idealized men are the powerful, complex people you want to be.

Channing and Ryan are none of these things.

I actually can't argue with that.

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Allison wrote:
Kyle wrote:

I'm sincerely curious as to what the difference in between Channing Tatum and Megan Fox and Ryan Reynolds and ScarJo.

Channing Tatum and Ryan Reynolds do not belong to a gender group that has historically been oppressed, otherized, and objectified. Idealized men are the powerful, complex people you want to be. Idealized women are things men want to fuck. Any other questions?

This is something that has always confused me about this argument (which I'm not entering btw, I'm just trying to figure something out). But what is the difference between every girl I know watching the trailer for Magic Mike and going "I would fuck the shit out of those guys." (Literal quote from one of my friends... and several more had variations on it), and a guy watching the trailer for Transformers or Avengers or whatever and thinking or saying the exact same thing about Megan Fox or ScarJo or whoever?

I've never understood why one is considered fine and socially acceptable but the other is consider vile putrid sexism.


(If this has been covered already, I apologize, I don't have time to read 6 pages of stuff right now)

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Um, I saw some outrage with Megan Fox (read, small outcry on other boards) but I think the reason this sparks protest is because....

This smells of rationalization. Like a missing-pretty-white-girl case making big news on CNN, the real reason is that nothing much else was going on.

There is absolutely nothing objectively different or worse about the marketing of Black Widow.

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Zarban wrote:
fireproof78 wrote:

Um, I saw some outrage with Megan Fox (read, small outcry on other boards) but I think the reason this sparks protest is because....

This smells of rationalization. Like a missing-pretty-white-girl case making big news on CNN, the real reason is that nothing much else was going on.

There is absolutely nothing objectively different or worse about the marketing of Black Widow.

It might be be rationalization, though I am trying to understand the metric you are using to measure this objectively.

I never claimed to be objective-I think, like others have posted, it is growing awareness of sexism that comes from education and personal growth.

But, I am striving for objectivity and will attempt to answer your statement as to why I think it is worse in the Avengers' marketing.

Warning: Rant ahead.

First of all, my point has been, and continues to be, comics are institutionalized sexism in their portrayal of females. There are some exceptions, but for the most part, especially the covers, they are designed to titillate the male audience in to buying them. If you would prefer more objective assessment, I have no doubt that I can find studies regarding comics and their portrayal of women.

The Avengers is not new in this however I think it has brought it more to the awareness of the public consciousness something that has been a part of Western, specifically American, society for many, many years. There are other examples, as many have pointed out, of women being portrayed as little more than sexualized set decorations.

This brings me to the difference between Megan Fox and the Black Widow. Please read this carefully because I feel like I am repeating myself with no one picking up this point. In Transformers, Megan Fox's character (its bad because I can't remember her name) is little more than eye candy for the male audience-I am not denying this. Its been brought up so so I will qualify it.

Megan Fox is not a "character" in the movie sense-she is a cardboard cut out with breasts and butt, a token girl for the male lead. That is all she is. The marketing of her was little more than the trailer shot of her flaunting her equipment. I think a fan edit of the movie could remove her or replace her with anyone else and there would not be a noticeable difference. As one reviewer I listened to commented on Transformers, the fact that she can "fix anything" (paraphrase) is little more than a statement about her character-we never actually see her fix cars or do anything that makes her sympathetic.

Of course, this is nothing new, but I call it out because it was a point made earlier. Yes, sexism exists, yes, it happens in other movies. Sorry if I am now calling it out in the Avengers.

In the Avengers, as commented on by the panel, Black Widow is a character. She has motivation, a past, emotions and concerns and also demonstrates an ability to hold her own against intimidating foes. She felt like a real person, someone we care about as an audience and can identify with to one degree or another. She is more than her looks-Black Widow demonstrates the ability to be on par with her male counterparts rather than a damsel in distress or token sexy girl in a group of men.

Why is it worse? To me, it is worse for two reasons. Please take the time to read them before dismissing me as overreacting to the Avengers and not other things.

1. As stated, Avengers takes time to create Black Widow as a person, a character with motivation and goals that are relevant to the story being told. She is presented as a person in the movie but not marketed as such. The movie poster that started this whole discussion is a great example, but is not the only example. Actions figures, posters, sculptures etc, present the male members of the team in action poses, while the Black Widow gets a passive stance, sometimes without a gun, barring cleavage and making sure her butt fills out the tight outfit. So, while presented as a full character in the movie, she is marketed as a token female, boobs, butt and boots.

2. Avengers is worse because of the target audience, just like I believe that comics are worse because of their target audience, of young males, 8-14. While there is obviously a larger market for them, comic book reading starts at a young age. So, while we here (at least the majority), are able to take objective view of material presented, a young audience does not. And this is not just my own take on things-psychologists for decades have proven that childhood attitudes are taught and ingrained from a young age. Behaviors presented to them are often acted out in their lives. Attitudes are learned and acted upon.

And like I said, it is not the movie-it is the marketing, its the toys that are being targeted towards a younger audience (Again, target audience not the adult collectors or fans out there). So, while there may not be any objective measure, I object to presenting Black Widow as a sex symbol to young kids, and my objection is also towards comics in general, which are also marketed towards a younger crowd.

Ok, rant over. My concern extends beyond the movie and towards the portrayal other marketing. Maybe it si because I have kids that I notice these things-I'm in the toy aisle a lot wink These are merely observations that extend to recognizing a larger problem within the culture at large.

By the way, my view is hardly extreme feminist. Here is a blog that is even more so-http://www.femmagazine.com/2012/08/08/i … ng-sexism/

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BigDamnArtist wrote:

But what is the difference between every girl I know watching the trailer for Magic Mike and going "I would fuck the shit out of those guys." (Literal quote from one of my friends... and several more had variations on it), and a guy watching the trailer for Transformers or Avengers or whatever and thinking or saying the exact same thing about Megan Fox or ScarJo or whoever?

MAGIC MIKE is one movie.

TRANSFORMERS or AVENGERS or whatever are all other movies.

Also, it's worth noting the counterexamples of male objectification being brought to bear here -- MAGIC MIKE, TWILIGHT -- are all extremely recent examples with a very limited sample size, whereas the examples of women existing solely in the context of the men around them goes back pretty much the whole way. See: the Bechdel test.

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Channing Tatum and Ryan Reynolds do not belong to a gender group that has historically been oppressed, otherized, and objectified. Idealized men are the powerful, complex people you want to be. Idealized women are things men want to fuck. Any other questions?

Nope.  Nope nope nope, calling bullshit on everything but the first sentence.  Taylor Lautner was not "idealized" in the twilight movies.  He was a teenaged sack of meat that women twice his age wanted to consume in similar fashion to a salt lick.  Who was more sexualized in Casino Royale? The powerful, smart, immune to James' bullshit Vesper or Daniel Craig rising dripping wet in his skivvies for no reason?  Would John Carter have been cast differently if, much like transformers, the male lead was chosen via a topless carwash?  The man who pulls his shirt off mid-movie to reveal a rippling 40 pack is not a moment that inspires me to reflect on his power and complexity and genius, it's a moment for the girls in the theater to whistle and whoop in a way I have -never once- heard in a theater when a woman's boobs are showing.

Yeah, I'm thinking the solution might be to a) stop watching movies with shitty characters or b) call people out when they do this.  Or should we just kind of go with it?

That wasn't my point, for starters- the point is that women are not written that way because writers are a bunch of 'ists, they're written that way because it's so much easier and nobody cares.  I make an effort to mostly watch decent movies.  You have spent more years than I've been paying attention (and I've at least tangentially known of you since I was 15 or so) decrying shitty movies, as has Patton Oswalt and a legion of other movie people.  And yet shitty shallow movies continue to be written.  So maybe that is the solution, or maybe it isn't, but that's not the argument at hand.

Yeah, I did see all this as a kid. And I figured out at 17 that it might be bullshit. Just because I managed to see what I was internalizing doesn't mean everyone else will.  There are a lot of young women (and young men) who see this stuff and do swallow it. That's why we're having this discussion. Because while I might be a feminist in spite of all this, not everyone is. It's a problem.

I'm not convinced that it's causing sexism.  The most anti-woman I've ever felt in my life was in direct response to years of horrifying experiences with one woman in particular and several others orbiting that time in my life.  The same is probably true of women who have a horrible experience with one or several men and wind up in the opposite camp.  I have never met anyone who was openly anti-gender who wasn't divorced or otherwise had a formative experience.

In terms of casual "Mad Men" sexism, sure, that exists.  But those are either people who haven't caught up to the times or just stupid, bad people.  You figure out a way to fix the problem of stupid, bad people and I will join that crusade in a heartbeat.  As it stands, in the last 50 years women have moved forwards so much in society that while sure, there are pockets of life where they are legitimately oppressed or behind, I don't think it's worth being so angry about something that is clearly fading.

Off topic but I'll bite since it's I'm writing about this for my anthropology final. It's explained in Paula England's  “Devaluation and the Pay of Comparable Male and Female Occupations”,
Francine D Blau and Lawrence Khan's, "The Gender Pay Gap", Lisa Belkin's "The Opt Out Revolution", and Jerry Jacobs and Kathleen Gerson's "The Time Divide". Check 'em out.

I will certainly look into those.  I have recently discovered, to my horror, that the internet has eroded my attention span to the point that sitting and reading anything more taxing than a Harry Potter book for longer than a good sized article is a physical and mental struggle, but I'm trying to fix that.

When.

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Jimmy B wrote:

I'm so glad you warned us about that rant first big_smile

Well, you know, I try not to be a complete jerk...

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