Most of the DiF'ers have talked about the original impact Star Wars had on us. That can't really be overstated.
Many movies had an influence on me, but in terms of making me say, "Oh, movies can do that?" there's three and they impacted me in very different ways.
The first was The Dark Crystal. I knew Henson had done it, but that movie was the first to really uncork my imagination and it was unlike anything I had ever known. Granted, I was 5.
One was Midnight Cowboy. You had these incredibly flawed characters that were just shattered reflections of America in the 70's. I saw it at age 15 and it redefined what a movie could of in terms of tone, rhythm, and how characters are supposed to relate to one another. Also, first movie where I actually cried at the end.
Lastly, and I can't believe I'm saying this, but Clerks. This was the first movie where the characters talked like me and my friends, cared about the same things as we did, and had the same feelings I was feeling at the time. I had drawn this concrete line of demarcation in my mind about Classic Cinema and the films of today. Most modern, consumer film may have used vocabulary similar to mine, but I rarely connected to the themes and ideas. Classic Cinema often had a theme that was timeless, but it had the baggage of its era, so it worked better as allegory. Clerks was one that felt modern and fresh, but relevant to what my experiences were and about themes I identified with. Its not a perfect film, and Smith is not a perfect filmmaker, but Clerks hit me at that perfect time.
Eddie Doty